Introduction:
In today's post I want to explore what I am calling "a theology of widowhood". God has quite a bit to say about widowhood in the Bible. My reasoning for exploring this subject is motivated by several considerations. As a pastor I have had the privilege of knowing or ministering to widows over the course of ministry. Some of the most influential people in my life were widows (my late mother and grandmother, just to name a few). Among the many people God used outside of my family to influence my life, no other group has taught me the important matters of the Christian faith quite like widows.
Beyond the personal evidence for the importance of widows in my life or the life of any local church, I find in my current preaching through 1 Timothy two verses that alert us to this notion of "a theology of widowhood". The Apostle Paul wrote in 1 Timothy 5:3 "Honor widows who are widows indeed." The adverbial "indeed" is a translation of an underlying clause that speaks literally of "one who continues to be a widow". These are widows with no means of income, no family, and who were to receive care from the Pastoral ministry of Pastor Timothy and the benevolence of the church at Ephesus.
The second verse in the same context of 1 Timothy 5, particular verse 5, reminds us of how God can use godly widows in the life of the church,
"Now she who is a widow indeed and who has been left alone, has fixed her hope on God and continues in entreaties and prayers night and day."
Such individuals are invaluable, since their prayers were used by God in the effectiveness of the church. How often I've observed this firsthand over the years. It is often that a minister will get tired in ministry. The prayers of a dear saint who is a widow can make all the difference, far beyond the cleverness of a church program or combined efforts of church members.
In today's post and the next one, I want to explore the theological significance of widows (or widowers), what God has to say about them, and what we can learn about this too often overlooked group of people.
Getting a closer look at a theology of widowhood
When I say "a theology of widowhood", I mean particular truths we can glean about God or the spiritual principles of Godly living from the Bible's teaching about widows. Think of widows in the Bible as a "window" through which we may observe major theological truths.
1. Proof of one's profession of faith.
I want to begin by considering one of the final verses in the Bible that gives us a clear example of the theological importance of widows to the Christian faith. James, the half-brother of the Lord Jesus according to the flesh, writes these words in James 1:26-27
"If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless. 27 Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world."
The term "religious" here speaks of "devotion" or an outward life that is committed to the Lord. Religion as a concept is not a negative, since it speaks of what ought to be a corresponding condition of the heart inwardly devoted to the Lord. The word "religion" itself, in its fundamental Latin derivation religio, speaks literally of being "tied to the Lord".
James is addressing claims people make about their level of devotion or "being tied" to the Lord. How does and individual or a church prove its level of spiritual devotion and health? Interestingly enough, James offers two proofs: how one treats widows and orphans and how one prioritizes personal integrity. In other words, there are moral, ethical, and theological litmus tests for a claim someone or a church may have about their level of Christianity.
2. God's Providential care.
As one surveys redemptive history in the Bible, certain key turning points in God's Providence involved widows. God's Providence has to do with His preservation, guiding, and moving forward of history, people, and nations according to His most-wise purpose. Often, I have found that the most questioned attribute of God is not His Sovereignty, nor His love, but His goodness. How do we know God really cares?
Of all the ways the Bible affirms and confirms the reality of God's good-will toward all He has made (what theologians call His "common grace" or "benevolence"), one of the clearest illustrations involves widows.
Solomon wrote these words in Proverbs 15:25,
"The Lord will tear down the house of the proud, but He will establish the boundary of the widow" (also see Psalm 68:5; Psalm 146:9).
When we talk of common grace or God's good-will toward all He has made, such good will, though being a non-saving form of grace, is still His unmerited favor toward us who are undeserving of it. God has special, providential oversight towards widows, whether they be believer or unbeliever. Much as He causes it to rain on the just and the unjust (Matthew 5:45) or causes the general revelation of Himself to be seen in all nations (Acts 14:17), such general evidence of His common grace is presented in the specific instances of widowhood in the Bible.
So, we've learned thus far that God uses widows to teach us about the proof of one's faith and the providential care of God in common grace. Let's note another truth in our "theology of widows".
3. Provision of God
What happens when a woman becomes a widow? Sources of income, scarcity of resources, and a sense of vulnerability can become painful realities. The sinful, selfish heart of human depravity can prey upon unsuspecting widows. In Exodus 22:22-24 the Lord gives this warning,
"You shall not afflict any widow or orphan. 23 If you afflict him at all, and if he does cry out to Me, I will surely hear his cry; 24 and My anger will be kindled, and I will kill you with the sword, and your wives shall become widows and your children fatherless."
God commands His people to provide for widows, whether in the Old Testament (Deuteronomy 14:28; 16:11-12; 24:19) or the New Testament (1 Timothy 5:16). Why these commands to watch out for and care for widows? God Himself is Jehovah-Jireh, "God our Provider".
Several instances of God's wondrous provision are found in how He provided for widows. In 1 Kings 17:8-16, we read about the widow at Zerephath whom God used to minister to the prophet Elijah. Jesus comments upon this Old Testament widow in Luke 4:25-26,
"But I say to you in truth, there were many widows in Israel in the days of Elijah, when the sky was shut up for three years and six months, when a great famine came over all the land; 26 and yet Elijah was sent to none of them, but only to Zarephath, in the land of Sidon, to a woman who was a widow."
Notice what Jesus said in his remarks: "Elijah was sent". God sent the prophet. The prophet went to this widow, who had nothing left for herself and her son. Yet, though being a Gentile (Zarephath was a Canaanite city), she had evidently experienced the saving grace of God. She gave the last of her flour for bread to feed Elijah. Consequently, 1 Kings 17:16 records how God provided,
"The bowl of flour was not exhausted nor did the jar of oil become empty, according to the word of the Lord which He spoke through Elijah."
The prophet Elijah's protege, Elisha, the successor to his prophetic ministry in the Northern Kingdom of Israel, experienced a similar miraculous provision of God to a certain widow in 2 Kings 4:1-7.
Time and time again we see God's promise of provision for His people emblemized in the lives of widows. How often do you and I doubt God's supply? Look at how He provided for widows in the Bible. The entire Book of Ruth is an example of how He provided for Ruth and her mother-in-law Naomi. They each lost their husbands at the beginning of the narrative in Ruth 1. Yet by the end of the Book, Naomi's sorrow is turned to joy and a gentile widow, Ruth, becomes married to Boaz, with them both being part of the lineage that would produce King David and ultimately the humanity of the Lord Jesus Christ.
In the next post we will see further truths illuminated to us through this exploration of "a theology of widowhood".
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